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i'd like to express my thoughts on sth........
the day i went back to school to get my results.....i saw a girl from another class.....PREGNANT

i noe...there are a lot of young girls getting pregnant by accident n ended up getting married in their teens.......
but truth b told......i was surprised........
well...at 1st i wasnt sure wif wat i saw.......
so i said to my frens......."Tht gurl looks pregnant....."
Xuan replied tht she thought so too....
n Jon said he heard from a fren tht she got married.........
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i tell u.....she's gotta b 4 or 5 months pregnant at least....
was she pregnant during SPM??????
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u do the math........

married at such a young age......
as Xuan said......how is the father of the child going to support the family????
well lucky for this girl....i heard the guy's family is rich.....
but seriously....is she juz goin to b a full-time mom n not further her studies??
i don mean tht the baby ruined her future....but let's face it.....she gotta at least learn some survival skills.......
reality is....this kind of marriage is very fragile.....u noe wat i mean.....
wat if the husband doesnt want her anymore in the future???

n wat bothers me is.......
isnt it silly having sex without protection?????
didnt they think of the consequences?????
erm.....i guess ppl forget to think rationally when they r blinded by passion....no?
but come to think of it.......mayb they intended to hav a baby......
even more outrageous.....mayb they love each other so much they wanna get married tht they purposely have a child to force their parents into accepting the marriage......
*there goes my wild imagination again*
but it's possible...........no??
haha........or mayb everyone juz agreed on their marriage n they had a baby after tht.......
but i doubt it........unless i counted wrongly........rite?


on the other hand.....there is a girl my sister's age....20.....
hu is already a mother of a one-year-old boy......
she unfortunately.......didnt get married.......
this girl got pregnant when she was in lower form 6.......
then she quit school to give birth to her baby.......
both parents talked of marriage.......
but the boy's family later refused to take responsiblity of the baby n said he was not their grandson.......
so this girl didnt get married n became a single mom.......
n i hav a feeling the guy's family is goin to regret abandoning this child......
like wat we see in dramas.......
i juz hope this toddler doesnt grow up hating his father.......

well...from the looks of it......the single mother seems more unfortunate...........
but who's to say who's luckier?? n who's happier??
perhaps the young wife is not ready to hav a baby n doesnt want to take care of her child.....
mayb she doesnt love her husband whole-heartedly.......
wouldnt she suffocate in this marriage??
n though the single mom was dumped by her boyfriend....mayb she would grow stronger n tougher for her son.....
n don u think she saved a lot of trouble when she didnt get married wif the irresponsible boyfriend?

but of course...these r juz assumptions.....
i do not noe wat went down in their lives.....
so i try not to judge ppl.......
well...ppl try their best to live a better life......no use pointing ur finger at them reminding them wat mistake they had made in their past......
our choices define who we are.....n they chose to live like this......

i truly hope the young couple will b happy wif each other n their child......
n the single mother will do juz fine wif her son........
though....ppl say tht happy endings only exist in fairy-tales.........><